10 Signs Readers Connect with a Story

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Over the weekend, I stayed up past my regular bed time to finish a book I’d been reading. That doesn’t happen often. Usually, after reading a chapter or two, I’m ready to hit the sack.

But this book, The Truth about Forever by Sarah Dessen, made me want to keep reading until the end. With about 40 pages left to read and the climax fast approaching, I didn’t want to wait until the morning to find out how the story ended. So I kept reading.

That experience made me wonder about reader engagement. Are there certain signs or behaviors that show readers are engaged with your story? I thought about my own reactions when I read. I started to notice the differences between how I feel about a story that truly engages my heart and mind and ones that fail to connect with me.

There’s a lesson to be learned here for aspiring writers. When writing your own stories, think about how you want your readers to react to them. What do you want them to remember about your story? How do you want them to feel when they finish reading it?  

So how do you know your story is connecting with readers? Here are the signs I’ve noticed in my reading experience. Which of these reactions resonate with you?

  • I keep turning the pages to find out what’s next. Sometimes that means staying up late past my bed time to finish reading a book. Especially if I’m getting close to the end of the book and I want to finish it. It’s that feeling of unfinished business that prevents me from turning off the light. So I keep turning the pages until I get to The End.
  • I mark the pages with memorable passages. Some of the books that are the most engaging tend to have moments of profound insight. When I find a passage that’s especially poetic and insightful, I use a post-it note to tab those sections, just in case I want to go back and read them. That way, I can find them more easily.
  • I want to find out more about the author. Where are they located? Did they obtain an MFA? How many other books did they write? After reading Dessen’s book, I did a Google search about her and read summaries of her other books, making note of which ones I want to read.
  • I refuse to give the book away—at least not right away. After I’ve read my favorite books, they tend to sit on my shelf for several years sometimes. A part of me wants to stay connected with the story for as long as possible. By giving the book away, I feel like I might forget the story. So I hold onto it until I’m ready to part with it, usually when I need to make space for other books.
  • I share my experience with other readers. I gladly refer the book to someone else who’s looking for an engaging read. I might even take a photo of the cover and share it with my friends on Facebook. Or I might write about it here on my blog. If the book is that good, it’s a shame to keep it to yourself. I have to let other people know about it.
  • I tell myself that this is the type of story I want to write. I observe how the writer has weaved the plot points, developed the characters and created suspense. There’s a lot I can learn from observing how they developed their story. Add to it some emotional insight or message that resonates with me, and I’ve found the formula for success. I know then that that’s the type of story I want to write.
  • I constantly think about the story and the characters when I’m not actively reading it. I could be doing some house cleaning or going for a walk, but I may still think about certain scenes that somehow stay with me.
  • I occasionally think about the book long after I’ve read it. It could be six months later or several years later, and I’m still thinking about the story. Perhaps that is the greatest level of engagement—longevity. I will always remember how I felt reading the ending of The Nightingale, even though I read it about five years ago. Some books simply have staying power.
  • The book touches my emotions in some way. When I get to the end of a story, I check in with myself. How do I feel about how the story ended? Satisfied? Surprised? Disbelieving? When I finished reading The Messy Lives of Book People by Phaedra Patrick (which is still sitting on my book shelf), I recall having a big smile on my face. The book gave me such joy, and the journey the author took me on was satisfying in so many ways. Patrick resolved all the plots in a way that not only made sense, but made me feel good. That’s a mark of a smart story teller.
  • I develop a relationship with the main character. When I can connect with the main character, I have more at stake in the story—the protagonist’s story. I’m a bit partial to first person POV, and Dessen used it effectively to bring emotional depth to her main character. I felt her pain and her joy. I saw what she saw and experienced what she did. When I connect with the main character, I want to keep reading to make sure they find their happily ever after.

    What about you? What signs do you see in your own reading experience that show you are truly engaged with the story?

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