Favorite Books of 2023

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Hello readers! Hope the New Year is getting off to a strong start. I’m back from my holiday break feeling refreshed and ready to work toward my writing goals. Hope you are too!

Before I get too deeply into this week’s post, I want to tell you about one small change to my website. As you may know, I post a writing prompt on my site. I tried to post the prompt every week, but frankly, it got more difficult to come up with a situational writing prompt. This year, I decided to post the  writing prompt twice a month, on the 15th and 30th of the month.

Secondly, in the past, the prompts had focused on a situation, such as a surprise guest or an event that takes place during a storm. But this year, the prompt will feature a word or phrase that might conjure up a memory or inspire you to write a scene related to that word.

For example, this week’s word is “bittersweet.” What images come to mind for that word? Perhaps it’s a bittersweet moment in your life? Or perhaps you tasted something that was bittersweet. Whatever that word might mean for you will lead you to your essay or short story. Hope those words/phrases will inspire you to write your best stories.

Now back to this week’s post.

Before we get too far into the New Year, I like to reflect on the books I’ve read over the past year. As usual, I created my own reading challenge to read a variety of genres. I find that reading different genres and writing styles keeps me honest as both a reader and a writer.

That said, 2023 was not the best year for my reading. Sure, I read a variety of stories, from mystery and romance to memoir and nonfiction, but few of impressed me.

What I look for in a novel is good storytelling, an interesting premise, strong, compelling characters, surprising plot twists and a satisfying ending. Below are my favorite books that excelled in those areas.

Before We Were Yours – Lisa Wingate
Told in a dual timeline in the past and present, Before We Were Yours is one of Wingate’s best. I was immediately drawn into the story, and the events of the past and the break-up of the five children was heartbreaking. This book was hard to put down, and the story and its characters stayed with me long after it ended.

The Little French Bistro – Nina George
It’s rare to read a book featuring a main character over the age of 60. This year I read two of them. (See Arthur Pepper below.) Wanting to escape her loveless marriage and boring life in London, Marianne wants to end her life. Rescued by a good Samaritan, she decides to venture out of London, joining up with a tourist group and ending up in a small French town where she meets a cast of characters who open her up to new possibilities for the future and who convince her that her life is only just beginning.

The Guest List – Lucy Foley
This is the first novel I’ve read by Foley, and it won’t be the last. As guests gather on a remote Irish island for a wedding, several of them are nervous about events from the past. The dual timeline didn’t slow down the pace of the story, but it could be confusing at times. Readers see events unfold from the points of view of five different characters, each with a reason to kill the victim. The speedy pacing made this a difficult book to put down.

The Last Thing He Told Me – Laura Dave
Of all the books I read the past year, this one was the most suspenseful. In an interview with Dave I heard last year, she admitted that it took her 12 years to write this book. She kept going back to it ever so often, sure that there was a nugget of a story. It was worth waiting for. A strong female lead character, snappy dialogue and brisk pacing made this a fast, easy read. I’m looking forward to reading more of Dave’s books.

The Curious Charms of Arthur Pepper – Phaedra Patrick
I adored Patrick’s last release, The Messy Lives of Book People, so I figured this novel would be just as good. Arthur Pepper is a 60-something widower who feels lost without his wife. While searching through his wife’s belongings, he comes across a piece of jewelry that belonged to her, which he knows he never gave her. He begins to wonder who is wife really is and what other secrets she may be hiding. In a series of events and journeys, Arthur begins to learn more about his wife, and about himself.

In Five Years – Rebecca Serle
Imagine waking up five years in the future in an apartment that is not yours and next to a man who is not your husband? That is the premise for this engaging novel by Serle, who takes readers on a time travel journey that makes you realize that things aren’t always as they seem. At the start, the story gives the impression of being a lightweight rom-com, only to turn somber at the midpoint. After a few interesting plot twists, the story hints at a happy ending. It’s a rare story that I still think about a whole year after I’ve finished reading it.

Honorable Mentions:
While not my personal favorites in 2023, the following books were worth reading for one reason or another.

Look Again by Lisa Scottoline – suspenseful, strong female lead
While Beauty Slept by Elizabeth Blackwell – a reimagined story of Sleeping Beauty
The Woman in Cabin 10 by Ruth Ware – psychological thriller set on a private luxury cruise ship
Safe Haven by Nicholas Sparks – fun, suspenseful read, perfect for summer
Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus – Didn’t love the book as much as everyone else seemed to, but I felt I had to read to see what the excitement was about.

What about you? What were the best books you read in 2023?

The Burden of the Unfinished Story

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How many unfinished manuscripts do you have lying around the house? I have so many, I’ve lost count. That’s because I always get excited about a fresh, new story idea, and I take time to sketch out the plot and characters. Next thing I know, I’ve drafted the first four chapters – and left my current work in progress collecting dust.

But there are certain consequences to leaving a story unfinished, writes author Colleen Story at her blog Writing and Wellness (although the article appeared in her newsletter). Unfinished stories can be detrimental to your physical and mental well-being.

She cites research by a Lithuanian psychologist in the 1920s that found that people are more likely to remember the tasks that they had left undone than the tasks they had finished. The feeling of unfinished business stays with you—until you decide to do something about it. It can feel like a weight around your shoulders, dragging you down.

Unfinished stories can also affect your mood too, Story says. It can cause stress and anxiety, fatigue and creative exhaustion, and sleep issues. They take up valuable mental and creative space in your brain, so that you can’t think or work on anything else.

Conversely, when you do finish a task, whether it’s a writing assignment for a client or a novel you’d been slaving away over for the past two years, you feel lighter and freer. That burden of unfinished business has been lifted off your shoulders. You can live and breathe again. It energizes you, boosts your self-confidence, and gives you pride of accomplishment. That feeling of euphoria can be addictive too, carrying you into your next creative project.

If you have a mini-library worth of unfinished stories, it’s time to make an important decision. You have several options:

  • Continue to keep the story hidden in your desk drawer and make yourself sick over the unfinished story.
  • Pull it out, look it over with a fresh eye and decide if it’s worth working on again. If it is, then get back to work.
  • Look at it again, decide it isn’t worth your time and let it go—literally and figuratively. Letting go of it is a release too. Some stories are meant to be finished, let alone published. Call them practice stories.

If you still need more evidence to finish that unfinished story, consider the example of author Laura Dave, whose book The Last Thing He Told Me became a national bestseller and was turned into a mini-series (and a whale of a book too!). In a recent panel discussion, she admitted that it took her 12 years to finally finish the manuscript that had been sitting in her desk. She tried working on it several times because she was sure it held some worthwhile nugget there. Only after an astute agent looked at it and provided suggestions was Dave able to finish the book.

Moral of the story: don’t give up. If the story is worth telling, if there’s a nugget of truth you want to share, then keep working on it. If your heart is no longer in it though, don’t waste your time on it. If time is the problem that you can’t get back to writing it, then you need to figure out how to make the time in your schedule. Writing should be a joy, not a burden. If an unfinished story is still a burden for you, then it’s time to ether let it go or get back to work on it. Not finishing what you started can be detrimental to your health and peace of mind, while finishing your story will be a cause for celebration—and give you another reason to keep writing.

Recommended Books about Mothers and Motherhood

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Since the calendar turned to the month of May, I’ve found myself reading novels where mothers are the key characters and motherhood the main theme. My current read is Two Little Girls in Blue, a suspense novel by legendary author Mary Higgins Clark, a story about the kidnapping of three-year-old twins Kelly and Kathy and their telepathic connection.  

Clark’s story got me thinking about other books I’ve read that explore similar themes of motherhood. With Mother’s Day coming up this weekend, I thought I would pay special tribute to Moms with a list of books that feature mother-child relationships. All types of mothers are included on this list, including birth mothers, adopted mothers and step mothers. Most of these books I’ve read, but I’ve included a few others worth noting.

So if you’re looking to add more to your TBR list, here are a few worth a look:

Look Again by Lisa Scottoline
What would you do if you received a postcard in the mail about missing children, and one of the children on the card looks identical to your adopted son? That is the premise of this suspenseful page turner that asks the question: What would you do if you suspected that your adopted child was kidnapped from another family?

The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave
With clearly drawn characters and crisp writing, this was another book I couldn’t stop reading. Hannah is a new wife and stepmother to 16-year-old Bailey, who wants nothing to do with her. When Hannah’s husband Owen disappears, she receives a note from him with one simple message: “Protect her.” Hannah knows she must protect Bailey, even as she tries to unravel what has happened to her husband.

Leaving Time by Jodi Picoult
With the help of a psychic and a private investigator, a teenaged girl attempts to find out what happened to her mother, an elephant researcher, after a tragic accident at an animal sanctuary. Guided by her mother’s diary that documented the behavior of elephants through death and grief, the girl follows a trail of clues that lead to a very unexpected and surprising ending.

Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng
The motherhood theme plays out in several different scenarios in  this moving novel by Ng. When artist and single mom Mia Warren arrives in the idyllic and carefully planned community of Shaker Heights, her disregard for the status quo upsets some area residents, particularly Elena Richardson, who is suspicious of Mia’s mysterious past. The lives of Mia and her daughter Pearl are intertwined with those of the four Richardson children. When friends of Elena want to adopt a Chinese-American infant, Mia and Elena find themselves on opposing sides of the debate. Elena becomes obsessed with ousting Mia from town with devastating results.

Lost by Joy Fielding
The first time Cindy lost her daughter Julia, her daughter was five years old. The second time was when Julia was 14 and she moved in with her father, which broke Cindy’s heart. But when Julia disappears again at age 21 after a promising audition with a Hollywood director, Cindy begins a frantic search for her. This time, the answers she finds reveals a disturbing truth about her daughter that she realized she never really knew.

Where Are The Children? by Mary Higgins Clark
One of the first novels by Clark, and probably the one that put her on the path to publishing success. Here’s another story about a mother whose two children disappear while playing in the front yard. In Clark’s signature style, the story is told from a variety of perspectives, including that of the kidnapper.

The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan
It’s been a while since I’ve read this debut novel by Tan, which explores four mother-daughter relationships of Asian-American heritage. The story is told from alternating points of view of each mother and daughter, exploring how the attitudes and behaviors toward love and family are passed through the generations. The film was also quite good.

White Oleander by Janet Fitch
It’s been a long while since I read this book by Fitch. I also remember seeing the movie starring Michelle Pfeiffer. After her mother Ingrid is charged with murder for killing her boyfriend, 12-year-old Astrid is shuffled from foster home to foster home, each time putting her in complicated situations. As Astrid struggles to define herself, she continues a rather tenuous relationship with Ingrid in prison.

The Book of Ruth by Jane Hamilton
At times this was a difficult book to read because of the moments of violence. I give credit to Hamilton for the way she treated each of the main characters. Ruth lives at home with her mother May, who sees her daughter as a disappointment because she isn’t anything like her brilliant brother who graduated from college and works in Boston. Instead, Ruth works at a dry cleaners and falls for a Ruby, a lazy, stubborn scoundrel, who does not mix well with May. Ruby and May come to a violent clash, and only Ruth’s innate goodness and compassion allows her to have hope for her future.

What Alice Forgot by Liane Moriarity.
I love how Moriarity plays with intriguing questions and scenarios, bringing both humor and drama to her stories. In this novel, 29-year-old Alice is pregnant with her first child and is crazy in love with her husband. After falling at the gym, she wakes up in the hospital, only to learn that it is ten years later, she’s 39 with three kids, and she can’t understand why she’s in the midst of a messy divorce and why her sister won’t speak to her. As she puts the pieces of her life together, Alice figures out how to connect with her children and mend fences with her sister who has been on her own journey to become a mother.

Other books often listed with motherhood themes that are currently on my TBR list.

Beloved by Toni Morrison
Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarity
The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey

What books about mothers and motherhood have left an impression on you? Which books would you recommend?