Creative Writing as a Form of Self-Care

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Creative writing is often looked at through a kaleidoscope of experiences: as a career path, a hobby, or simply a way to communicate. But writing as a form of self-care is a different lens altogether.

Most people, I suspect, are too focused on the practical aspects of writing to consider it as self-care. They’re more focused on writing as a critical work skill or a means to publication. Also most self-care routines are focused on the physical body – proper sleep and nutrition, physical exercise, hygiene, etc. But creative writing requires mental and emotional energy. It can feel more like work rather than a way to relax or take care of yourself.

“I remind myself, over and over again, that writing fiction is an act of self-care. And self-care isn’t selfish or inaccessible,” writes Sweta Vikram, a speaker, author and holistic wellness coach. “Taking care of yourself….is important! It not just helps you feel better, but [it] also fuels your creativity and supports you to perform better in the long run.”

The University of Greater Manchester (U.K.) outlines numerous psychological benefits to creative writing, including:

* gaining mental clarity
* increasing self-esteem
* expressing emotions
* boosting creativity
* strengthening memory and attention span

With so many wonderful benefits to creative writing, it’s no wonder so many people gravitate toward it. Writing is a healthy habit that anyone can develop, no matter what age or level of education they have. In addition to the university’s outlined benefits, here are a few others I’ve noted through my experience.

* Helps reduce stress. Writing is one of the most relaxing activities I’ve experienced. I feel amazingly calm as I write, no matter what I’m writing about. The action puts me in a zone that is free of pressure and stress. The process of creating stories is also fun, which also lowers stress levels.

* Emotional release. Creative writing as self-care can help you deal with emotional issues as they arise and make sense of them. Perhaps you don’t quite understand why you’re feeling angry or sad. Writing can help you sort out those feelings. While writing won’t make those problems go away, it can make them seem more manageable.

* Clarity of thought. Our brains may feel jumbled with so much incoming stimuli, whether it’s social media, news stories or simply our workplace. Writing sifts through all that so you can make sense of what you see, hear and experience of the world.

* Improved communication. Not everyone communicates well verbally. Sometimes written words do a better job of communicating our messages than speech. 

* Quality alone time for yourself. It’s not always easy to find alone time amidst demands from bosses, clients and families. But that alone time is important to reconnect with yourself and help you become aware of your thoughts and feelings. Writing is the perfect activity to do during that alone time. 

* Creative self-expression. We all need to express ourselves, and writing is one outlet at our disposal. Writing as self-care is an opportunity to tap into your creativity and find the story you want to tell.

How do you add writing to your self-care regimen? Writing as self-care doesn’t (and shouldn’t) require a lot of time, but even 10 minutes can make a difference to make you feel centered and focused. Here are some ideas for using writing as self-care.

1. Freewriting. Set a timer for five or ten minutes, then using pen and paper, start writing freely without picking up the pen from the page. Allow your thoughts to flow to the page.

2. Use a prompt. If you don’t like staring at a blank page, a prompt can unlock your creative flow. Some of my favorite prompts are “I remember” and “What if?”

3. Do a brain dump. Using bullet points, make a list of everything you’re thinking and feeling. Don’t judge yourself. Simply write whatever is happening in your mind and body.

4. Find a photo from a family album and write about what you see. Alternately, find any photo that inspires you and write about your feelings when you look at it.

What to do when you can’t find that alone time? I say, write wherever you are. Even if it’s dreaming up scenes for your novel while doing the dishes, or crafting several paragraphs in your head as you shower. When you think of writing as a form of self-care, you may be more inclined to make time for writing.

I’ll leave with this final thought from Sweta Vikram: “Make room for the writing that nurtures us, not just what supposedly sells or our profession expects us to deliver. Just being able to write what you want to write is ample self-care on some days.”

What do you think? Is creative writing a form of self-care?

Picturing Success for Your Writing Career

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A professional colleague once told me, “Success comes before work only in the dictionary.” I remember her words today many years later because I’ve been thinking a lot lately about what it means to be successful as a writer. The truth is, you have to work at being a writer. Success doesn’t happen overnight.

Even before we put any words on the page or think about our next story, we should think about what success means. To truly enjoy success in this odd creative profession we call writing, it helps to picture what success looks like. That picture won’t be the same for everyone. For one person, success might be getting their novel published after slaving over it for five years. For another, it’s finishing a first draft of their first novel. For yet another person, it might be sitting down to write 500 words every day.

When you’re just starting out as a writer, it might be difficult to imagine the big picture of your writing life because you’re more focused on getting words down on the page for your current project, or simply finishing your story. Few writers have any clear idea what their writing careers will look like down the road. They only know that they want to write something that people will want to read and enjoy.

There are two good reasons why picturing success is an important first step in your writing career. It helps you to:

*Imagine a positive income for your efforts
*Work toward a concrete goal

Picturing success isn’t always easy, at least not when you’re starting out as a writer. There are several steps to create that picture that will drive your creative efforts.

Step 1: Define Success
Before you picture success, take time to define what it means for you. What does it look like? What does it feel like in your body? Write down that definition and meditate on it. Your definition won’t be the same as someone else’s, so don’t be shy about defining it in unique ways.

Step 2: Think Ahead
Imagine what your writing life looks like one year from now or longer. Sometimes picturing your life in the future can help you set intermediate goals that will act as stepping stones toward that long-term goal. In the corporate world, they use a similar method called a Blueprint for Success. Apply it to your own writing career and see where it takes you.

Another trick is to use visualization exercises to help you “see” your success as if you’ve already achieved it. Close your eyes and visualize yourself receiving that writing award, reading a positive book review, or seeing your name as a byline. As you visualize your success, note how it feels in your body. That is the mindset you want to re-create as you move forward.

Step 3: Find a medium that best fits your picture.
Once you’ve defined success on your terms, consider different ways to picture success. Some creatives might prefer drawings or photographs while others use words. Whichever medium you choose, make it something that is meaningful and helps you see the possibilities for your career success as a writer. Here are a few ideas to get started:

* Meditation. Take time out of your day to meditate for a few minutes. Meditation can slow your brain which can help clarify the picture of your writing life. The mind can get fuzzy at times trying to juggle so many thoughts and tasks. So a brief meditation about success can bring your writer self into sharper focus.

* Journaling – Write about your writing dreams. Jot down ideas on how to achieve them. This might be a good place to jot down your definition of success, what it looks like and feels like to you. Journaling can help you sort out any feelings of self-doubt or confusion or fear that you might have related to your writing career.

* Create a vision board or a collage. Compile photos from your own collection or cut them from magazines to create a collage representing your writing career. Choose the images that best tell the story of your writing life, the goals you want to achieve or what you want your writing life to look like.

* Sketch your vision of success. If you enjoy drawing, sketch pictures that demonstrate your picture of success the way you defined it. The act of drawing or sketching can reinforce your writing goals so you feel more connected to them.

* Repeat affirmations. Create several affirmations to reflect what you want to achieve in your writing life. Then once a day, repeat those affirmations several times. The act of repetition, just like the drawings, can reinforce your picture of success so you don’t lose sight of it.

* Write a note to your future self. With a pen and paper, describe the writing life you’d like to achieve a year from that moment. Remind yourself what your goals are and what obstacles you must overcome to achieve them. Most importantly, be kind to yourself. Then fold up the note and bury it somewhere out of sight. Make a note to retrieve it in one year to review and reassess your progress.

* Write a manifesto. A manifesto is a declaration of intentions. To picture her own success as a writer, Octavia Butler created a manifesto that helped her stay focused on her writing goals. Whether or not you aim as high as Butler, your manifesto can guide your efforts as a writer.  Much like affirmations, a manifesto can reinforce your picture of success.

* Create a symbol of success. Think of a symbol or icon to represent what success means to you. It could be a star, a book, a smiley face, a rolled up scroll, a heart. Make sure the icon has meaning for you and relates to your vision of success. Then put the symbol somewhere where you can see it every day, whether it’s by your desk, a refrigerator, a mirror. Seeing the symbol everyday can serve as a reminder of what you want to achieve in your writing life.

Step 4: Revisit and Revise
No matter which medium you choose, it’s important to revisit your picture every so often, usually six months or a year. Have your goals changed? Has your definition of success changed? Have you set new goals for yourself? If your picture of success hasn’t changed, keep working. If it has, rewrite your goal, resketch that picture of success, then get back to work.

Keep your picture of success close so you never lose sight of what you want to accomplish.