
Next week, many families in the U.S. will be celebrating Thanksgiving with their loved ones. It’s a time to give thanks for all that life has given them.
It’s at this time that my thoughts often turn to gratitude. I pause to reflect on one simple question: What am I grateful for?
Gratitude, though, doesn’t have to be a once-a-year experience. It can also be a regular habit, something to meditate over once a day or once a week. When gratitude becomes a habit and part of a regular thought process, it can offer many health benefits, according to the UCLA Health blog. Expressing gratitude can:
* Reduce depression
* Lessen anxiety
* Support heart health
* Relieve stress
* Improve sleep
With so many potential benefits for your health, it’s no wonder many people, including writers, have adopted a gratitude mindset. Fortunately, writers have many paths to express gratitude, ranging from something as simple as a gratitude list to more complex projects like writing an essay or short story.
Is there something – or someone – you are grateful for? Take a moment to say thank you, and not just verbally. Use your creative skills to express your feelings. Here are a few ideas to accomplish that, or use one of your own.
* A gratitude list – Take stock of the things you are grateful for in a simple list. Take a moment to jot down the people and things that are important to you. Getting into a routine of making a gratitude list every week or every month can improve your mood and your mindset.
* A gratitude journal – For some people, a gratitude journal is a regular part of their gratitude practice, something they maintain every day rather than once a week or once a month. They use the journal to record their thoughts about gratitude, and keep track of the ways they express it to others. While the gratitude list may be completed as the mood strikes you, the journal is usually maintained every day and can become part of a regular routine.
* Write an essay. Is there a particular person or event that changed your life in some way? Consider writing about it as an essay or narrative non-fiction piece. The aim isn’t about getting the piece published – although that would be a bonus – but to express gratitude in an unusual and unexpected way.
* Write a short story. If essays aren’t your thing, consider writing the event as a short story. If there’s someone special you want to show gratitude toward, use them as inspiration for one of your characters.
* Send a greeting card (or make your own). I’m a bit old fashioned and love sending greeting cards at Christmas. But there’s no rule that says you have to do that only at that time of year or at birthdays. A greeting card at Thanksgiving expressing that you’re thankful for someone’s love, support, or friendship can be especially meaningful because it’s not competing with other greeting cards. If you have the time and inspiration, design your own greeting card and write your own heartfelt message.
* Write a letter. Contrary to popular assumptions, letters have not gone out of style. A note or letter, especially if it’s handwritten, can be one of the most memorable gifts you can give to someone. People tend to keep these letters and notes for a long time. If you’re not sure what to say right away, draft the letter first then rewrite it on some nice stationery.
* Create a gratitude jar. Don’t have time to write a letter? Want to keep track of all that you’re grateful for? Try keeping a gratitude jar. On slips of paper, write down the name of a person that you appreciate being in your life or an event that changed you in some way. This approach is helpful if you don’t have to sit down to think of everything you’re grateful for, but rather on the fly. After a while, the jar will fill up.
This is an exercise for yourself; no one else needs to know about it. When you’re feeling blue, you can read each slip of paper to remind yourself of the people and events you are most grateful for.
Do you have a special way of expressing your gratitude?
I’ll leave with this inspiring quote from Plato: “A grateful mind is a great mind which eventually attracts to itself great things.
No blog post next week because of the holiday. Until next time, know that I am grateful to you, my readers, for all your support. You’ve helped me keep this blog going for more than nine years. Thank you!










